How to Discern if a Word is From the Lord

This article will serve as a good followup to an an article we just released titled, “How to be Led by the Holy Spirit.”

In that article, we gave you 8 basic ways in which the Lord will use to supernaturally communicate to us in this life.

In this new article, I now want to take you one step further and show you how to properly test any type of supernatural communication you may receive so you know for sure the word you are receiving is really coming from the Lord and not from your own imagination or from a demon.

Many Christians do not properly test any type of supernatural communication they receive and as a result, they sometimes get duped by a demon who is trying to masquerade as the Lord with the message he is giving to them.

Below I will give you 8 very basic tests that you can use to test any type of supernatural communication you think you are receiving.

The word “test” means to carefully analyze, scrutinize – to prove and to try.

Remember, if you are receiving any type of supernatural words or messages, it is either coming from one of three sources:

  • From the Lord Himself
  • From your own mind and imagination, as the OT has told us how some prophets would prophesy out of their imagination
  • Or it could be coming from a demonic spirit who is trying to knock you off course

As we have said in our first article on how to be led by the Holy Spirit, do not be afraid if sometimes you miss this, as all of this is a learning process with the Lord.

You will learn how to hear from God through a process of trial and error with Him. And just because demons can try and mess with us at times does not mean you want to totally shut God down with the different ways He will use to supernaturally communicate to us in this life.

God was constantly communicating to His people back in both the OT and NT, and He still wants to do it in this day and age since He is the same today as He was yesterday. We just have to learn how to do this with Him.

Now I will break down these 8 different ways on how to test a word from the Lord so you will know for sure that the word you are receiving is really coming directly from Him and not from your own imagination or a demon.

How To Test Any Type of Supernatural Communication You May Receive

Before I get into the 8 different ways in which you can test any type of supernatural, divine communication you think you may be receiving, here are a few good verses from the Bible showing us that we have to test these kinds of supernatural things out when we do receive them.

  • “Test all things; hold fast what is good.” (1 Thessalonians 5:21)
  • “For Satan himself transforms himself into an ANGEL OF LIGHT. Therefore it is no great thing if his ministers also transform themselves into ministers of righteousness, whose end will be according to their works.” (2 Corinthians 11:14)
  • “Beloved, do not believe every spirit, BUT TEST THE SPIRITS, whether they are of God; because many false prophets have gone out into the world. By this you know the Spirit of God: Every spirit that confesses that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is of God, and every spirit that does not confess that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is not of God. And this is the spirit of the antichrist, which you have heard was coming, and is now already in the world.” (1 John 4:1-4)

The first verse hits the nail right on the head when it tells us to test all things. And all things means any kind of supernatural communication you think you are receiving, including those that are coming direct from the Lord.

God will not be offended if you attempt to test what He is trying to tell you. He will want you to test it, otherwise He would have never put the above verses in His Word. Too many Christians have been seriously hurt over the years because they have never stopped to test the words they were receiving.

Here are the 8 basic tests you can use to test any type of supernatural communication you think you may be receiving. I will first list them out in a bolded, numbered format so you can have them right at the top of this section. Here they are:

  • Does the Word Line Up With Scripture?
  • Does the Word Line Up With the Character of God?
  • Does the Word Line Up With What God is Doing With Your Life?
  • Does Your Spirit Bear Witness With the Word?
  • There is Safety in the Multitude of Counselors
  • Ask God to Confirm the Word For You
  • Will the Word Glorify God?
  • Will the Word Produce Liberty or Bondage?

Now here is a breakdown on each one of these 8 tests so you will know how to use each one of them to properly test any type of supernatural word you think you may be receiving from the Lord.

1. Does the Word Line Up With Scripture?

This is without a doubt the first test you must use to make sure that what you are receiving is truly coming from the Lord. If the word or message does not pass this first test, then you have to immediately throw it out, as it is no longer trustworthy.

This first test is that the word and message that you are are receiving has to line up with the Word of God – the Bible. God will never go against His own Word. And if the message you are receiving is not lining up with Scripture or is blatantly going against Scripture, you have to immediately discard it – no questions asked!

Here are some examples of where you can receive a false word that will not be lining up with Scripture:

a)  If you are dating a girl and all of a sudden you think you are receiving a word from the Lord that it would be alright for you to start having sex with her, that word will not be from the Lord.

This would be the sin of fornication and this sin is specifically mentioned in the Bible numerous times. Thus the word you are receiving cannot be trusted as being a pure true word from the Lord, as God would never go against one of His own basic commands in the Bible.

Demons love to try and get people off track by committing these types of sins, so do not fall for it if you think that type of word is coming in on you. Immediately rebuke the demon and tell him to leave you in the name of Jesus if you ever feel that kind of false word is coming in on you.

b)  If you are married and you are starting to have some troubles in your marriage, and then all of a sudden you feel like you have received a word that it would be alright to start having an affair with someone else because you are no longer happy and fulfilled in your marriage – again, do not fall for for it.

This would be adultery, and the Bible has the sin of adultery listed as one of the 10 commandments. Again, God would never, ever tell you to commit this sin, as this would be going against His own direct Word on this topic.

Believe it or not, we have heard from numerous Christians over the years who felt they were receiving this kind of word and release from the Lord due to the bad state of their marriage.

In each case, we told these people that God would in no way authorize this kind of sinful behavior and that they could not act on it, as this word was not coming in from the Lord. This word was either coming in from their own imagination and their own desires, since they were no longer happy in their marriages, or it was coming in from a demon.

c)  Another very interesting area where this test will come into play is when a Christian is dating an unbeliever. They then all of a sudden think they have received a release and a word from the Lord to marry this person, even though their partner still has not been saved and still has not shown any interests on getting saved.

Again, the Bible tells us not to be yoked together with unbelievers, and if you marry this unbeliever, you are definitely going to be yoked together with them, thus violating this basic command from the Bible.

Unless God is making a strong move to get your dating partner saved, I would never commit to marrying this person, as the Bible is very clear on this command. Once again, here is this verse if you were not aware that it was in the Bible:

“Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness? And what accord has Christ with Belial? Or what part has a believer with an unbeliever? And what agreement has the temple of God with idols? For you are the temple of the living God.” (2 Corinthians 6:14)

I had a friend from work who married an unbeliever and within one year, the entire marriage blew up and she was divorced several months later. There was no anointing on this marriage because God never authorized it in the first place because she was violating this basic verse from Scripture on not being yoked together with an unbeliever.

I could go on and on with more examples, but the point to get is to make sure the word you are receiving is lining up with the Bible. If you are a bit weak in the Bible, then talk to your pastor or to another Christian who does know their Bible and then run the word by them. They should be able to tell you if the word is lining up with Scripture or not.

2. Does the Word Line Up With the Character of God?

Another basic test that you have to use is to make sure the word you are receiving is lining up with the character and personality of God Himself. In other words, is this something that God would really ask you to do or tell you to do? Is this one of His ways?

The closer you get to God in your own personal relationship with Him, and the more time you spend reading the Bible, the better you will get to know God. And the better you get to know God, the better you will be able to see and discern if a word is lining up with His character and personality.

Many Christians get burned in this area because they are not walking close to God nor have they spent much time in the Bible. As a result, they really do not know God and they thus are easier pickings for demons to give them false words of guidance.

Again, if you think you are receiving a word, but you may not be really close to God, ask several other Christians who do have close walks with the Lord and who do know their Bible and their God. They should be able to help you with the word you think you are receiving.

Where this particular test will come in is when you receive a word, but there is really nothing in Scripture on it. If there is nothing in the Bible on it, then you will really need to apply this test to it to see if the word is lining up with the character and personality of God Himself.

3. Does the Word Line Up With What God is Doing With Your Life?

Sometimes the word you may receive has to be analyzed to see if it will fit into what God has already been doing with your life. The Bible tells us that God is one One who will build the “house” of our lives. As a result, any word that you receive that has to do with your big picture with the Lord has to be carefully analyzed and see if it fits into what God has already been doing with your life.

If God is calling you to be an attorney, and He is building you up in that area so you can enter into that calling when the time is right, God is not going to be throwing you a curve ball and all of a sudden ask you to go off into the far reaches of Africa to do missionary work for the next 20 years of your life.

If God is going to put a call on your life, then He is going to carefully build you up in that call so you can enter into it when the time is right. Demons love to try and knock Christians off course by trying to give them a false word to try something else different so they can knock them right out of their calls with the Lord.

There have been documented cases of Christians thinking they have received a word from the Lord to go off and be missionaries. Without seeking or getting any type of confirmation that this word was really from the Lord, they immediately pack up their bags and leave for the missionary fields. And then a year or two later, they are flat broke, all beat up, and they then return back home with absolutely no success on the missionary fields.

The reason they were not successful was because God never called them to do this in the first place. And since God never called them to do this, there was no anointing on their efforts. And with there being no anointing to do this, they had no basic protection, provision, favor, money, or supplies coming to them when they were needing it.

In other words, there was no divine support for them because they were out of the will of God and they were either following their own imaginations and desires, or they got played and duped by a demon. That is why you have to carefully analyze and test any type of divine communication you think you are receiving – to make sure that it really is the Lord talking to you and not your own imagination and desires, or possibly a demon.

Again, if you are receiving a word from the Lord that has to do with what He is calling you to do in this life, make sure that you carefully analyze this word to see if it fits into what He has already been doing with your life and with what He has already built up in your life.

4. Does Your Spirit Bear Witness With the Word?

As we explained to you in our article, “How to be Led by the Holy Spirit,” the number one way the Holy Spirit will communicate to you in this life is through the inner witness – the inner knowing. If you are receiving a true word from the Lord, the Holy Spirit should be bearing witness with that word out of your own human spirit.

So the next test will be – does your own spirit bear good witness with the word, since the Holy Spirit lives in your human spirit and that is where He will be bearing witness at.

If you are not getting a good witness from the Holy Spirit, or the witness feels really flat and dull, then stop and ask God the Father for confirmation to make sure this word is really coming from Him. Not getting a good witness from the Holy Spirit is always a major red flag, since the Holy Spirit is always in perfect unity and harmony with both God the Father and Jesus Christ.

5. There is Safety in the Multitude of Counselors

Another test you can use is to run the word by a few other seasoned Christians who really know their Bible and their God. The Bible tells us that there is safety in the multitude of counselors. Sometimes another seasoned Christian will be able to see something with the word that you are not seeing.

Here are several good verses from the Bible telling us that we can do this with the Lord:

  • “Where there is no counsel, the people fall; but in the multitude of counselors there is safety.” (Proverbs 11:14)
  • “A wise man is strong, yes, a man of knowledge increases strength; for by wise counsel you will wage your own war, and in a multitude of counselors there is safety.” (Proverbs 24:5)
  • “Every purpose is established by counsel; by wise counsel wage war.” (Proverbs 20:18)
  • “Without counsel, plans go awry, but in the multitude of counselors they are established.” (Proverbs 15:22)
  • “Listen to counsel and receive instruction, that you may be wise in your latter days.” (Proverbs 19:20)
  • “Cease listening to instruction, my son, and you will stray from the words of knowledge.” (Proverbs 19:27)

As you can see from the way these verses are being worded, God does want you to consult with other wise and seasoned Christians from time to time depending on exactly what it is that you are dealing with.

And sometimes when you think you are receiving a word from the Lord, you may need to run this word by a few of these wise and seasoned Christians so you can make sure that you are reading the word correctly, and that the word is really coming in from the Lord and not from a demon or your own mind and imagination.

So if need be, do not be afraid to run your word by a few other wise Christians if you are not 100% sure the word is from the Lord. Sometimes a fresh pair of eyes are needed to see what the real truth is and whether or not the word is truly coming from the Lord.

This is why the Lord has given us the above verses, to let us know that sometimes we will need help from other Christians due to our own imperfections and possible shortsightedness.

6. Ask God to Confirm the Word For You

Another big thing you can do if you are not quite sure the word is from the Lord is to just go back to God in prayer and ask Him to confirm His word for you.

This is one area that gets many Christians into major trouble. They receive a quick word, but instead of properly testing it and/or asking God to help confirm the word for them, they immediately take off running with the word. And if that word was not from the Lord, they then end up taking a major wrong turn in their life and serious damage can be done as a result.

Marrying the wrong person because you did not wait for more confirmation from God, or taking the wrong job at the wrong time could all lead to disastrous results. The bigger and more serious the word is, the more you have to properly test it and get God’s confirmation to make sure that it really is Him talking to you.

Many Christians have ended up marrying the wrong people in this life because they did not wait for God’s confirmation to the original word. Again, demons love nothing more than to try and knock you off course by trying to get you to marry the wrong person or take the wrong jobs in this life. This is why you should never be afraid to ask God to confirm His own word for you.

The way God can confirm His own Word for you can be done in many different ways.

The Bible says that out of the mouth of two or three witnesses every word will be established. What people have found out is that sometimes God will cause two or three witnesses to come up to you in close proximity and basically tell you the same thing that God told you in the original word.

These two or three witnesses could be total strangers or people you already know, but in either case, they will know nothing about the original word that was given to you by the Lord.

Another way God could confirm the word for you is through the gift of prophesy. All of sudden you will have someone prophesying over you telling you basically the same thing you were told with the original word. Many times prophecy is used by God to help confirm what was already given to you by Him. And the person prophesying over you will have no prior knowledge of the original word given to you by the Lord.

When you get a person prophesying over you, or two or three witnesses coming up to you who have no prior knowledge of what God had told you – and they then tell you basically the same thing that God had originally told you – this will be so supernatural, that is how you will know that it really was God talking to you in the first place and not your own imagination or a demon.

God can also use dreams, visions, or possibly a very strong witness from the Holy Spirit Himself to help confirm for you that the word was really from Him.

Again, just ask God to confirm the word for you if you are not sure, and then watch and wait for that confirmation to come to you if the word was truly from the Lord. You will know the confirmation when it does come to you from the Lord. You will not be able to miss it, because many of these confirmations will be so supernatural and “so in your face.”

7. Will the Word Glorify God?

Another test you will want to use is to make sure any words, messages, or guidance you are receiving from the Lord will always bring Him all of the glory. Always remember – we work, live, and die for the Lord. We work for Him in this life, not for ourselves or for our own glory.

Many secular men and woman in this world only work for their own self-interests and their own glory in this life. It is all about them, and anything they achieve and accomplish in this life is all for their own ego.

They work for themselves, they do not work for God. As Christians, we always have to remember that these divine calls and assignments are all coming direct from the Lord, not from us or the world in general.

As a result, we always have to remember that we work for the Lord in this life, not for ourselves, our parents, our friends, or the world in general. This is why you always have to make sure that anything you do in this life will always bring all of the glory to the Lord.

Demons are all about their own glory and their own self-exaltation, as that is what got Satan thrown out of heaven.

As a result, they will try to get people to think it is all about them rather than the Lord. Satan fell as a result of this kind of prideful, evil, and wrong thinking, and he still wants to try and bring down as many people as he can through this same type of prideful and evil thinking.

The devil’s tactics are always the same. Inflate the ego, get major pride worked into someone’s personality, and then it won’t be long until that person takes his eyes off God and then places it all on his own self. And from there, it will only be a matter of time before they fall and lose it all, as the Bible tells us that pride and a haughty spirit will come before the fall.

Here are 5 very good verses showing us that all of the glory always belongs to the Lord, not to us:

  • “I am the Lord, that is My name; and My glory I will not give to another, nor My praise to graven images.” (Isaiah 42:8)
  • “Therefore let no one glory in men. For all things all yours …” (1 Corinthians 3:21)
  • “Therefore, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.” (1 Corinthians 10:31)
  • ” … that no flesh should glory in His presence.” (1 Corinthians 1:29)
  • “So on a set day Herod, arrayed in royal apparel, sat on his throne and gave an oration to them. And the people kept shouting, “The voice of a god and not of a man!” Then immediately an angel of the Lord struck him, because he did not give glory to God. And he was eaten by worms and died.” ( Acts 12:22-23)

The very last verse is rather bone-chilling, as an angel of the Lord literally struck a man dead as a result of him trying to steal the glory that only belongs to the Lord.

By always remembering to make sure that all of your activities for God always bring Him all of the glory, this will really help you in making sure that you never take your eyes and attention off the Lord and then start to place too much of it on your own self.

8. Will the Word Produce Liberty or Bondage?

The last test you will want to use on any type of word you think you are receiving is to make sure the word will lead to liberty and not to any type of bondage and fear.

The Bible says that where the Spirit of the Lord is at, there is liberty and freedom.

Here is this most important verse, along with two others that will show you that the Lord is all about liberty and freedom – not fear, intimidation, and bondage.

  • “Now the Lord is the Spirit; and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty.” (2 Corinthians 3:17)
  • “For you did not receive the spirit of bondage again to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption by whom we cry out, “Abba, Father!” (Romans 8:15)
  • “The Spirit of the Lord is upon Me, because the Lord has anointed Me … to proclaim liberty to the captives and the opening of the prison to those who are bound …” (Isaiah 61:1)

If you are a Christian woman dating a Christian man, and this man has been severely verbally abusing you during most of your dating life, and then all of a sudden you think you are receiving a word from the Lord to marry this man, this word will have major red flags all over it.

If you are in a verbally abusive relationship, you are in a certain amount of bondage. And if you marry this man, you will go into even more bondage, as you will now have to put up with that verbal abuse 24/7 as compared to what you had to put up with in the dating relationship.

Unless God is making a strong move to get your partner cleaned up, I would not commit to marrying this kind of man, as many of the times the abuse will only get worse once you marry him.

Too many women marry abusive men thinking or hoping they will change once they get married. But most of the time they never do unless God Himself makes a strong move to convict them and get them cleaned up.

Again, demons would love nothing more than to try and get you to marry into an abusive relationship so they can use this abusive person to try and control you and completely destroy your life. That is why you always have to make sure that any words you are receiving from the Lord will lead to liberty and freedom, not to any type of bondage, fear, or slavery.

Conclusion

If you use the above 8 tests to test any type of divine communication you think you are receiving, they should for the most part be able to tell you what is truly coming from the Lord, and what may be coming from your own natural desires and imagination, or from a demonic spirit.

Again, it is extremely important that you test all supernatural communication you think you are receiving, as believing and acting on a false word could either destroy your life, or cause major delays to occur with what God is doing with your life.

If demons cannot kill you, they will either try and paralyze you, or knock you off the path that God has set up for your life.

That is why all supernatural communication has to be tested – to make sure that it really is coming in from the Lord and not from your own imagination or from a demon.

Many Christians have been seriously burned and hurt because they did not properly test a word that was coming to them. They have either married the wrong people, took the wrong jobs, or hung out with the wrong people.

As a result, they either lost their calls and their divine destinies with the Lord, or they lost valuable years in that call due to having to deal with the consequences and repercussions of making those wrong turns in the roadway.

And this was all because they jumped the gun too quickly and did not properly test the word they were receiving – especially words of actual guidance like who they should be marrying and what jobs they should be taking in this life.

We do not want to scare anyone away from learning how to hear from God and how to be led by Him in this life. Every Christian can learn how to do this, but you always have to remember that we still live in a fallen, cursed, and imperfect world with demons still being allowed to roam in the air.

As a result, we always have to filter any type of supernatural communication we think we are receiving through some of the above tests so we can make sure that we are on safe ground and that the word we have received has truly come to us from the Lord.

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  1. Spiritual Prophetess - September 5, 2018 at 1:25 pm

    I want to reply, and say if the Lord calls you and tells you to go somewhere and rely a message and you have distinguished that is really him, you better go..

    My story and testimony is long but there is no greater testimony than Jesus Christ our LORD and Saviour.

    When is anyone going to understand that God our heavenly Father is not on our time. If he calls someone distinguish that it is of him and if it is go do it.. Everyone that is a servant of God and all is gifted and all is equal. No one is better than anyone on Earth we are all here to be a servant to Christ not live the life we want. You can not love two masters, you can’t love the LORD and love money.. You either love one and hate the other.

    Going poor as you stated is not a reason to say that wasn’t God’s calling, going lazy is.. Have you not read what about to JOB? Exactly, I am not here to judge, but you correct you..

    If you hear a calling and you distinguished that it is from our Father, or our LORD and trust go forth, because we are on the Last hour the second coming of Christ. As James states do not plan for the next day or so on you do not know if you will have one.

    A lot of people physically worship our LORD and its time to start to Spiritually connect to him.. Then you will understand brother and sisters. We have to be ready and repent, grow a relationship with our LORD.

    I have seen a brief vision of the second coming, I have seen New Jerusalem, I have seen soldiers wearing white and ready for the second coming..

    Read the Bible and ask the heavenly Father what is your spiritual gift and do God’s will, spread his Gospel.

    What did Jesus do, told all his disciples follow him and he will make them fishers of me. He didn’t say finished your law degree if he calls you to go do his work. What was Matthew? Exactly.. Doesn’t matter who you are or what you do when God calls you, whether you are prepared of not Listen. For all that have hears let them ear..

    Don’t be in this world. Do not follow what the nation’s do. God is with you. In Jesus name, Amen

  2. Joshua Porch - August 18, 2018 at 11:01 pm

    This article helped me out a lot, but there’s still a few things bugging me. I had a vision at the beginning of this year, and a handful of things I’ve heard in the spirit that closely or loosely relate to the content of that vision as the year as progressed. My vision and words passed all 8 tests essentially, but the “strong confirmation by the Holy Spirit” that happened very recently, where (I think it was actually God) was reassuring me that these aforementioned things were really from Him and really coming to pass, I still had this worry in the back of my mind the next day about “what if Satan faked that strong confirmation from the Holy Spirit feeling, words and experience”? It’s like, every time I’ve asked God for confirmations something has happened soon afterward that seemed like a sign from Him, and this happened probably over a dozen different times of me asking God for more proof, but they all seemed so subtle that it’s hard to be 100% sure that those signs I asked for were really from God!

    At the same time, I wonder if Satan knows that all of these things I’ve been asking for confirmation on ARE true or coming to pass and originated from God, and has been trying to make me doubt that God’s confirmations are really from God. Y’all please pray for me or respond to this comment with helpful advice. It could take another 2-3 years of “wait and see” before I know for sure whether the contents of the vision and some of the words to my spirit that were related to it will come to pass, and I’d sure like to know the final answer without having to wait 2 to 3 years.

    • Kierra Richardson - September 22, 2018 at 12:03 am

      I believe that we can overthink things sometimes…I understand how you fell as well. Ask in your head to the Lord of a confirmation that you can’t deny. Hope this helped…I did this and it was amazing what God did.

    • Godwin - October 15, 2018 at 5:05 pm

      If there is an original then certainly there is fake, the beauty about walking with Christ is that He will always leave the decision making to you. The Holy Spirit will not live your life for you, but rather will guide you on how to go about things. It is an advanced level of civilization which isn’t so difficult to understand. Your choices are your choices, He gives you a vision and also the enablement to direct your every path!
      Live right and think right, you are good to go!

  3. Mark Garza - April 15, 2018 at 12:33 pm

    This church woman keeps telling me I got a word from the Lord for you
    I’m at the point if Christ wanted me to know something, He would of told me Himself!!!

  4. Ashley Cottingham - December 16, 2017 at 9:43 am

    I heard the abudance of the rain then had a dream of cake and you tube the meaning and it said celebration and enjoying the abundance some one sent me a video of a littte girl preaching and she said recieve it I was on the way into town with a women from the church she had took me to an interview and rain starr comming down on the car but it was no rain and I looked around and u asked her if she could hear it the rain she said yes but it was dry out so me not knowing she told me it was the abundance of rain never heard that in my life and every since then I ve been hearing the word and received it

  5. R - July 23, 2014 at 8:46 am

    Thank you so much for this article -it is very helpful and I like how you deferred to God: unless he “is making a strong move”.

    This article made me realize that I have received confirmation in a number of ways for things I believe.

    As I am expecting fulfillment, and await a confirmation in a bold way, I can remember some of the things I read in the article and look to the Lord.

  6. spelling - December 16, 2013 at 3:52 pm

    hello sir, sorry I couldn`t read the article to the end because I am not in accord with your affirmation on marriage with unbelievers. you are quite right in quoting St Paul in 2 Cor 6:14, but what do you say about 1 Peter 3:1 or even 1Cor 7:12-14. the same St Paul is the one talking here. am sure you agree with me that there are more pretty women (in beauty and in character) out there than our fellow Christian sisters even though they have not yet received the light of faith. in the Name of what or better of on which bases will you deny or stop a Christian brother from falling in love with such a lady. if you do then you will be cruel and unfair. your position is that of separation and even segregation and that is not Christ-like; for Christ came to unite and gather into one his children. they too are his children even though they are lost.
    I believe the problem is not at the level of our union with them but rather that of our identification to them. you can be close to him without being like him and thereby pulling him out of his pit. (here I want to believe in the power of love) ad our Lord Jesus is a clear example of this. He was close to sinner and at the same time he was not a sinner.
    in short I don`t think your radical position is the best. in as much as you are right, you should also try to be flexible when it concerns such matters and help people to examine their cases individually and not generalise them.

    • BG - August 30, 2018 at 3:41 am

      I can tell you the wisdom of this article cannot be understated, through decades of tear-strained torment, being yoked in two separate marriages without unison of Christian practice, and yoked with unbelievers. Unless the authentic LORD God unites a husband and wife in marriage, and the couple understands that He alone is their source of life with Jesus, the Messiah, their focus, and over their marriage, otherwise is betting for disaster. Your definition of love departs from God’s, yet you want to justify your feelings, not Him. I pray you do not have to enter into and endure any of the hardship in exchange for fleeting loveliness of ladies.

  7. DELE ADEWOLE - December 6, 2013 at 1:27 pm

    What an eye opener, the article is fantastic. May the Lord continue to enrich your knowledge.

  8. John H. Kohlenberg sr. - December 5, 2013 at 9:18 pm

    Praise and glory to our lord. I was listening to the radio while driving. The sermon was based on how to tell if a Christian was a wolf in sheep’s clothing. I almost changed the station when the pastor said. A wolf in sheep’s clothing has blood on his mouth. I am glad I kept listening to him. He said that a sheep will never hurt another sheep. with words or action. If a person verbally abuses you, or judges you when you know it is not true. Beware. There are a lot of false prophets who claim they are Christians, but will attack you and try to rule over you. They try to impress you with their knowledge of God, but be careful, because the Jezebel spirit ( The spirit of control is Satan’s most intelligent demon. ) is a warrior spirit. They think they are right on all the scripture. They make you feel like they have a big beam of light to Gods path. Only problem they don’t live what they preach. If you oppose what they believe in, you have a real fight on your hands. I have met a lot of people in churches like that. Oh yes, they are even bible teachers and pastors. That is why you need to test the spirits to see if they have blood on their face. May all the praise and glory go to the Almighty God for giving us the Holy Spirit to teach us. I only rely on his teachings.

    • Chris - December 6, 2013 at 8:21 am

      Thanks for sharing and that is so true. Btw, who was the preacher who said that?

  9. elena - December 5, 2013 at 8:17 pm

    Thank you for this website. I have been ministered to by quite a few of your newsletters.The biblical teaching that you share is invaluable in the day and age we live in. And this last article “how to discern whether a Word is from the Lord” was insightful & allowed me to piece together a prophetic dream given to me during a pivotal moment in my life some 3 1/2 years ago, which involvef a huge step of faith on my part! As I was reading the article I was aligning each point to the dream, and although there was no actual scripture given to me, the dream did line up with what I was actually going through at the time, & the person who had the dream, had no idea what my situation was. As I continued to read, the Holy Spirit brought to my remembrance the other
    2 people that He used at that time in different settings. Each one not knowing what God was walking me through, yet acurately zeroing in on what He was revealing to me. All three women were long time friends, sisters in the Lord & in love with Jesus, each having their own personal walk with God. One called from out of State, & some time had lapsed since I had fellowshipped with her & the other two. God is amazing & He loves us so much, that He will go to whatever extremes to make His Will known to us as clearly as we need to have it. Who cannot fall in love with a God like that, yet we find it hard at times to just believe, obey & follow Him. I have been guilty of that myself many times. So thank you for bringing this teaching with clarity. God bless your ministry.

  10. Roberta Burckardt - December 5, 2013 at 7:02 am

    Hi- I love your website so. I receive some words. I felt the last one was powerful and so for all of us. I want to give it to the church but have not received directly from GOd a confirmation. I have not always waited on the Lord but felt He wanted me to give the word. I will really pray about this one! Your website is a blessing to so many people. THank you and GOd BLess. Merry Christmas! ROberta Burckardt

  11. Benecia - October 10, 2013 at 3:46 pm

    Thank you for taking the time to share this teaching. It is sound, and much needed given the subjectivity of the church at large.

    Thanks to Musing Aloud as well for more sound thinking.

    God bless you both.

  12. Musing Aloud - April 9, 2012 at 11:09 am

    I see this area of discernment as a much neglected area of teaching today. So many churches have so little in the way of sound doctrine and teaching, instead feeding people a gospel oriented around pyschology, a few bible verses to back it up and a bunch of personal anecdotes and self improvement programs. Such pastors often react to these errors in others while practicing and supporting them at the same time, all without even so much as realizing this is so. So much emphasis is put on experiences and emotions as if supernatural = God and feelings are reliable indicators of what is right. Yet the bible speaks of lying signs and wonders.

    I believe that I myself have experienced being deceived by an angel of light. In every way I took it to be God speaking to me about the deepest areas of pain and need in my life. It seemed such an experience of grace and mercy and of a deep love that touched and lighted every corner of my being. There were merciful words that spoke release over areas where false blame for the actions of others had crippled my life. It was healing and felt restorative. Yet, there was no scripture spoken in this “encounter with God” to anchor what was said in God’s word. I don’t think that God would lead us to conclusions about reality and about our lives without supporting and anchoring it in His word. Doesn’t it seem odd that God would hold a conversation with me about my life and say nothing or little about His word which He upholds as the supreme standard and rule of life? There was no mention of my sinful responses to these areas of my life. Is it mercy and grace to gloss or even ignore sin? I doubt it. Satan is able to part us easily from any foundation not anchored in Christ and His word. If we aren’t in line with scripture when attack comes we have no sword to fend it off with.

    I have had several such encounters which I took to be God. At one time in my life as a young person, I professed christian faith but was involved in some sin; although the sin had a connection to some trauma in my life, it was still a wrong situation. After repeatedly falling in the same area, I reached out to some christian friends and they responded by rejecting me and saying some things that were hurtful. I felt shattered but at the moment, felt a sense of comforting intervention and an assurance that spoke in inward words that suggested that their views were not synonomous with God’s views. I felt immediately healed and comforted and the terror of God having written me off, which is how I took their writing me off, was immediately gone, as was the shattering effect. So based on the experience of love and mercy, I assumed that this must be God.

    However, many years later, evaluating that in the light of scripture, I have to ask myself. If that was God, would He merely intervene and comfort me but say nothing to me of the sinful lifestyle and pattern I was involved in? My christian friends were a bit holier than thou and pharisaical but they weren’t entirely incorrect. Scripture says that we are not to continue an association with any so called brother who is immoral. It also directs us to withdraw ourselves from those who have a form of godliness that denies the power thereof, as well as confronting our brother over his sin.

    A friend I was discussing this with suggested that maybe God knew that at that time I was so damaged by my past that He knew I “couldn’t handle” hearing about my sin. But surely, if God is able to intervene and overturn the damaging effects of human words, would He not be able to show us our sin in a way that leads to godly sorrow and repentance, rather than being shattered by the revelation? I think He is able. I am sure that many of the people who were involved in the crucifixion of Christ had wounds in their lives and things about which they were ashamed and felt fragile over, but scripture shows no record of God witholding truth from them because they were ‘wounded”. If sin is so bad that Jesus had to leave heaven and come die for us, it makes me wonder if we have some wrong ideas of what grace and mercy means .

    I noted the comments about marrying the wrong person as a result of following wrong ideas and false leadings. You correctly pointed out that a potential mate qualifies for being the wrong person when they are: An unbeleiver. A person who is living in out of control flesh, ie, verbally abusive which is sinful behaviour. A person who wants us to sin etc. I recall there was a teaching that went around in the seventies that is still around today and that was something along the lines of God having one right person for us to marry, so if you’ve somehow missed the “perfect will” of God,then you are stuck with second best. Rebekah and Isaac are cited as a proof text of this. I suspect this teaching has led to some divorces and much misery and doubt.

    I don’t think scripture teaches the idea of a perfect will vs. permissive will or that God has one right mate and all the others are wrong. Scripture, when speaking of a woman who is lawfully free to remarry because her husband has died says that “she is free to marry whom she chooses, only in the Lord”. Obviously if there was one right person to marry then scripture would say something like, she must seek the Lord for who she should marry, being carefully wait on Him for His answer. While its wise to seek God for such a big decision, I don’t beleive it should be held to be a doctrine. In cases where the first spouse has died, if it were true that this first mate were the only one that God had blessed, the poor second spouse would seem as if they were some kind of discount replacement. Some have tried to say “only in the Lord” means the leading of the Holy Spirit, which of course is part of being a christian, but it is actually referring to the fact that the other person must be “in the Lord”, a believer who is part of the faith community. That being said, if we ask for God’s wisdom and guidance in any serious life decision I believe he will give it.

    Thank for your writing on this topic of angels of light. It would be great to hear of folks who have experienced deception and learned from it.

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