Testimony – God Restores a Broken Marriage

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One of the more frequent type of emails we have received over the years since we have been online is from married couples, where one of the spouses has left the other one for another partner. The one spouse who has been left behind then starts praying to God to bring their spouse back home.

The pain adultery causes in a marriage relationship is extreme and traumatic, as a broken heart is one of the worst kinds of pain you can go through. For those of you who have been on the receiving end of adultery, you know exactly what I am talking about. You feel like your whole world has been shattered and that you will never be able to trust your spouse again, even though you are asking God to bring your mate back to you as you cannot stand the pain of that broken heart.

For those of you who are still praying to the Lord for the restoration of your marriage, below is a powerful testimony we have just received from a woman by the name of Crystal. Crystal had what she thought was the perfect marriage when all of a sudden her husband tells her one day he wants out of the marriage, as he had been having an affair with a woman online.

As you will see when reviewing her testimony below, Crystal was determined she was not going to lose her good marriage over something like this, so she stormed the throne of God asking Him to move to bring her husband back. Here is her word-for-word testimony, and then I will point out a few key things she did to get God to move on this extreme situation.

My name is Crystal and I’m here to let you know that with man it may seem impossible……but with Almighty God…..NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE…

I made a promise to God and to myself that WHEN he restored my marriage, I would testify and tell the world….I would share EVERY single detail no matter how shameful and embarrassing it would be, in the hope and knowledge that I would someday be able to bring some kind of hope for a hurting wife or husband who would’ve been going through what I once was.

I’ll try to be as brief as possible but I really don’t want to leave any detail out….no matter how small, because it may be the very thing God wants to use to inspire and encourage a stander or prodigal spouse.

I don’t want to apportion blame too much here but suffice it to say we had some in-law issues which contributed greatly to our demise….but that is another story and I want to concentrate on how God showed up and showed off in the mist of my situation. Today is March 16th 2011…. My husband of 1 year and 5 months left me on November 30th, 2010… .BUT…. all thanks and all praise be to Almighty God, he is now back home and we are rebuilding a marriage that from all counts and to the naked eye in the natural realm was dead.

As far as I could see we were the perfect couple……went out together…….stayed home together……laughed, joked……..we were like two peas in a pod……of course we had our regular marital problems….no marriage is perfect……..in addition to the above we also….. argued and sometimes told each other some harsh words…….LIKE EVERY OTHER COUPLE……it isn’t right but it happens…..

In spite of all this , I believed he loved me just as much as I loved him……you could imagine my surprise and heart break when one day after a short disagreement……and I mean short….lasting no more that a few minutes…..my beloved husband packed his clothes and walked out of my life…….

All this happened on Nov 30th 2010…..I held off from calling him because I was still upset and I figured I didn’t do him any harm…..he was the one that stepped out in our marriage and on our marriage…..ours wasn’t a physical stepping as in outside sex….it was an on-going 5 month relationship on the internet, with someone he had been previously involved with.

The days went by and he didn’t call so on December 5th 2010….I called him…..he refused to take my calls so I texted him only to be told that he wasn’t interested in me and I should go on with my life….that I should never call or text him again……..that was like a dagger through my heart……I felt as though someone had literally ran a knife straight through my stomach and was twisting it repeatedly…..but that isn’t the worse yet…..

I persisted in calling him that same day and eventually he picked up the phone…he was as cold as ice……I felt frightened even listening to him……he told me….I NEVER LOVED YOU……I AM SORRY WE GOT MARRIED…..I FELT TRAPPED IN THIS MARRIAGE…..I DON’T LOVE YOU LIKE A MAN SHOULD LOVE A WOMAN…..THE FEELINGS I HAVE FOR YOU IS THAT OF A “GOOD” FRIEND……I DON’T WANT TO BE WITH YOU AND YOU SHOULD GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE…..I’M
NOT COMING BACK…….

I have never felt pain like I did then in my entire life……..it is amazing when you are down on luck how quickly you remember that GOD does exists.

I was a regular church goer and I tithed but I still didn’t have that personal relationship with God…..well God has a way of getting our attention in ways unimaginable….and he got mine.

I cried DAILY AND HOURLY……I felt all hope was gone….I mean how do you get someone to love you again when that person is saying I never loved you at all…..YOU CANT….BUT GOD CAN……

I had built my life around my husband and now he was gone……I felt like I lost the better part of me…..I couldn’t eat….I couldn’t eat ….I didn’t want to socialize and I forced myself to go to work…..but God had a plan…….even though all seemed lost……God was turning my situation around even as I was hurting…..what the devil meant for evil God was turning around for good.

I enlisted the help of three persons…….a Prophetess, an Apostle, and a church Pastor…..these were all spiritual people I knew……and strong men and women of God……I knew I wasn’t strong in my spirit and my faith was way less than even that of a mustard seed.

I still cried every day but I also engaged in some radical and spiritual warfare for my husband…..I spoke the word of God over my marriage EVERYDAY and I prayed hedges of thorns around my husband EVERYDAY…..I pleaded the blood of Jesus over him and claimed my marriage in the name of Jesus.

Remember I wasn’t rooted in God so my prayers wasn’t as flowing as other people but everyday I gain more and more strength and my faith began to soar…..I prayed that God would soften my husband’s heart and remind him of the love we once shared……I asked God to send Godly people in his life to speak to him even when I couldn’t and God heard me….

I think I either bought or borrowed every book on marriage…warfare….prayer…you name it ….every website I could think of…….. And I just wrapped my husband up and prayed what ever pray I could even verbatim from some of those same books…….I became like a one man army…..

At times the devil whispered in my ears and unbelief and doubt settled in….I would call my prayer warriors for encouragement and go to God crying and in a few hours would be right as rain and ready again to go up against the gates of hell for my boo. To make a long story short……Sunday January 16th 2011….I got a text from my husband….who accidently had AGAIN on the 14th January 2011…..told me he felt the same way and I should go on with my life.

He said he wanted to talk and wanted to know if he could come by the house…he wanted to know if I could forgive him for what he did and for us to try again at our
marriage…

I had released my husband and my marriage to God and I knew God was going to do something…. but I thought it would be perhaps a Hi hello…how are you….or perhaps a few weeks down the line he might drop in a call or something……….I had no idea that MY GOD was bringing my husband home that day….that instant…

He told me that after he spoke to me on Thursday….he went to God himself and talked to him and asked him to speak and show him what he should do……..he said from the time he said that everything just went crazy…..everything he saw reminded him of me….. when he went to sleep his dreams were constant replays of our life together….. he started thinking about stuff that happened before and after our marriage that were nothing short of miraculous…..

In short…..God was speaking to him all along but he was too proud to just walk back and admit that he was wrong but he wanted to so much….. He wanted to give our marriage a chance and he loved me and wanted to be with ME.

I give all the thanks and praise to God for what he did……it doesn’t matter what your situation looks like….it doesn’t matter how impossible and dead it seems……it doesn’t matter what your husband or wife is planning……..we plan but God is also planning and he works EVERYTHING out together for those that love the LORD..

DO NOT GIVE UP….THE DEVIL AND EVEN YOUR OWN MIND IS GOING TO TRY TO TELL YOU TO MOVE ON…LEAVE HIM/HER ALONE…HE/SHE DOESN’T WANT YOU…..THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO…..THERE IS NO ONE THAT CAN HELP YOU NOW…..DO NOT LISTEN……even in your tears….cry out to God….when you don’t know what to say…..just say JESUS….nothing more……tears is a language God understands and he is going to work it out…..

This isn’t every single detail of what happened there are parts missing…but my short journey has been nothing but incredible and miraculous…but I want you to know that with God ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE…

Be encouraged

Notice several key things Crystal did to get God to move on her behalf.

1.  The first thing she did was to fully surrender the entire matter into God’s hand. Notice she said she had faith less than the size of a mustard seed when she first started to approach the Lord for His help.

As we have showed you in our article titled, “Bible Verses on Faith,” the Bible tells us that faith the size of a mustard seed will move mountains. This means that you do not have to have large amounts of faith with the Lord to get the show going with Him. God will take whatever level of faith you are operating at with Him and then move to help you out with your current situation as long as you are directly seeking after His help and are willing to fully surrender the entire matter into His hands.

2.  The next thing she did right was to enlist the aid of three powerful prayer warriors to help her with her prayers to the Lord. This is what is called the prayer of agreement. We already have an article on how powerful of a strategy this is with the Lord. The title of this article is, “Prayer Secret #6 – The Prayer of Agreement.”

3.  Also notice she went into a very heavy seeking mode by searching out every good book she could find on marriage, prayer, and spiritual warfare. The Bible says to “seek” and then you will find what you are looking for. And this woman went into a very heavy seeking mode. I believe when God sees this kind of intense seeking activity, He is really moved, and sometimes that is what will get Him to move to answer the prayer.

4.  Another thing she did when she went on the offensive was to plead the blood of Jesus around the situation. If you have a spouse that has left you for another person, it would be our recommendation to plead the blood of Jesus around them, and then plead the blood of Jesus against any demons who are trying to get in the middle of this, along with pleading the blood of Jesus directly against the person they are having the affair with.

All in all, as you read her incredible testimony, the thing that stands out is her fierce determination that she was not going to let her marriage go, and that she would take a hold of God and keep praying to Him until He brought her husband back home to her.

We want to personally thank Crystal for allowing us to release her testimony on our site, as it will help show others that God can move to restore broken marriages, no matter how hopeless things may look in the natural.

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  1. My wife and I have been together just over 2 years. Married for a little less than that.

    As of two days ago she said she wanted to move out and has been gone since. The marriage has been hard she has had 1 affair already a DUI and I’m quite sure she is seeing someone else.

    I was not a perfect husband as I had walked away from the Lord after a long series of heartbreaks and destroyed dreams. Dreams I had trusted to God. Marriage has a way of bringing you back to the Lord.

    We both hurt each other and my own harsh words and my issues I know hurt her greatly. I was absolutely ready to leave the marriage but through an old bible study teacher the Lord has led me to pray Hosea 2 over her and I have asked many other to pray as well.

    I am on my knees daily, hourly if possible praying for reconciliation and restoration of this marriage. That is the place the Lord has bought me too. I do not know what will happen or what the Lord’s timing is but I know it is his will to restore our marriage.

    Lord, I thank you for the testimony of those on here. I pray and agree with all of the ones on here asking for you to restore marriages. Lord marriage is a convent before you and I ask you honor the covenant those and myself made here before you.

    Destroy the plans of satan and his demons. Restore hearts and minds towards you. Lord if any marriage on here was not built on you restore it too a place built on YOU! Lord I plead your blood over all of us on this page. Jesus please restore my marriage. Please hedge up the path my wife and the path of others husbands and wives who are fleeing and straying.

    JESUS give us the love YOU have for our spouses may it flow from us, from strangers and from everywhere our spouses walk. Restore every marriage that is being placed in your hands. Do your work the way only you can do in the supernatural and the natural. Give us all hope and help us cling to you Jesus and your word when doubts and lies come in from the enemy.

    Amen.

    Love you all!

  2. Recently after insiting on my husband about if he is having an affair, he admitted. He even stated that she is much younger, he is much happier with her, more compatible in all areas of life. That was a shock for me. When family tried to reach out he was brutal. He asked me not to contact him ans to start proceeding with divorce and seperation because he is in love with her. I pleaded, cried, prayed, others are praying but his heart is hardened. I dont want to give up but how can I know that this marriage is over because he is refusing and in so much love with the other woman? Please.pray..i love him so much

  3. It’s encouraging to read Crystal’s testimony and I am sure very soon it will be mine. My husband left me on 18July, 2019 after an argument. Things hadn’t been going well for sometime and I knew of the affairs he was having but didn’t mind them much till they started affecting my home. He was so defensive and angry with me that he had to leave around 1am. I pleaded with him and apologized but he couldn’t listen. Ever since I have tried to get him back through my family for he insisted on not telling his family. He always says he hasn’t left me but he needs time alone. Meanwhile I have fasted and prayed for my marriage and at least now he responds to my messages when he wants to, he “blue ticks” me on whatsapp. I called him today to say I miss him and he just did he is around and cut me off. I have tried to go to his place wit people to intervene and he kwa ya says he has to find someone to talk to us before we get back together but he isn’t doing anything towards that. I haven’t given up on us and the situation has made me grow spiritually and I am trusting God to restore my marriage and it will be restored like the way God restored everything for Job in the Bible

  4. I was married at 18 to my wife, she left me shortly before I turned 20, and it has now been over a year since she left. She is now dating another man, and she won’t even speak to me. We go to the same church’s and she speaks to everyone but me. The pain is crippling, especially because I want to be a Pastor and I cannot do that If i have been divorced and remarried. I need a miracle, i need God to bring her back, but I’m afraid she won’t respond to God’s efforts. I’m still only 20, I can’t imagine staying single my whole life. I have massive dreams and visions of a big wonderful Godly family, going all out serving the Lord. Please pray for me. My name is Josh. My wife who left is Angelica. This is my one shot at everything, the odds are against me, I’m a massive underdog, but I know anything is possible with God.

    • My Brother. Josh

      I feel your pain believe me you are not alone. I got married at 19 years and my wife Nirmalla was 16 years old the best things that ever happen to me.
      I am in a similar situation with my loving wife Nirmala after 30 wonderful years. We had our ups and down but it has been 3 months as this glorious women is my high school sweetheart Nirmalla. I put her through a fare share of pain but never cheated on her except by adultery in the heart of lust.
      We have 3 wonderful children and i love my wife like no other women on earth as we were made for each other i know. I know God will touch her heart to forgive me as there are witchcraft involve with our marriage as well, after much of excruciating pain i don’t gave up and don’t intent to God is in control as we keep going before God broken dsily by prayer and fasting. I can see progress already of soften of heart as satan plan are been crushed by the power of Jesus our Lord and Saviour.

      For you my brother.
      What i am trying to say my brother is put your heart in the hands of Jesus and believe me he would not let you down.is after much of excruciating pain i am sure you are going through i would encourage to get some elders involved and deliverance pastor and believe me you would see God Amazing power.
      Remember you are agreeing with God as he is strongly against marriage so please my brother don’t gave up i will keep you in my Prayer and get my elders as well and watch God restore your marriage like new if he hasn’t done so already /
      One things i can say is never have a drop of doubt in your mind as God is in control also NEVER be afraid as the enemy works on that however it would only delay it as God is in charge,
      I prayer a hedge of protection around your marriage and cover it with the Precious blood of Jesus. I bind and cast out every evil works of the enemy to die now in Jesus Name against your marriage with Angelica and Josh and i sent my word right now that the holy spirit will soften her heart and return to you as brand new through the renewing and falling in love with you all over again and cleansing through the precious blood of Jesus . Amen. All will be well in Jesus name. Please just agree with my prayer as it makes a huge difference according to scripture.

      God is in control my brother .
      Barry

  5. I am also excited to share my story here soon in God’s perfect time. I am presently facing struggles in my marriage. My husband left me and my daughter for 2months already he told me he wants to be single again without a wife to interfere on his decision. I am thinking that he has an affair with whom I don’t know but I don’t have a proof since he refused to tell me. He sometimes sent message to me asking about my daughter. I am really challenge and inspires with Crystal’s story I always read this now and then because it will remind me that God can restore marriage because nothing is impossible with God.
    Always Praying for God’s right time to restore my marriage.

  6. We have been together for 18 years and a half, this is the 3rd separation
    , he left me last year and came back this year in March and now he decided to separate again, first it was because we can’t have kids and now because he doesn’t love me and he doesn’t trust me, he thinks I’m always looking at guys and makes up stories of how he caught me looking, in the past he has cheated on me so many times, has a daughter with he’s ex and I still forgave him. I have pray so much and ask God to please make him stop thinking like that, I have never cheated on him or done anything bad, I’ve been a good wife and God is a witness but my husband does not believe in me, he said for me to be a women and admit what I have done. I ask for everyone’s prayers again pleaseeeeeeee, I do not know what else to do, I feel like I’m loosing this battle after so many years, I have been trying to safe my marriage since the beginning and it is always something, the enemy is trying to brake what God put together. I pray every day, I cry every day, I ask God for a sign, I ask for strength. Thank you for your prayers and any advice that anyone can give me will be ready appreciated. God bless

    • wow…I just saw this. I too am broken hearted that my wife is asking for a divorce. We love each other, but she says that there is “too much water under the bridge.”

      I know that with God there is no such thing as too much water…He can fix anything.

      I shall continue reading these posts and praying for each and every one of you.

  7. Hi Crystal, Thank you for sharing your story. I found it to be very inspirational…I had been standing for my marriage for Since my husband of 30 years left us 10 months ago. He walked out on us his family for another woman in Oct 2018. I saw him in December for our sons bday and He asked I stay with him saying he was alone the other woman left. I did so it stayed that way a long while but always ending because his phone would go off and he’d pick a argument with me and walk out. Since his departure I found out there was a vehicle accident in our vehicle in 2018 which the driver claimed to be me. My husband wasn’t with her and she didn’t have her license so the our vehicle was impounded and my husband had to take it out. I had to go clear my name at the police department being I don’t drive. Things started coming up little by little and the whole time he’s denying everything. Still I pray the enemy let my husband go because this is not him. The latest things is called to the car insurance company to ask about this woman who claimed to be me in July 2018. They didn’t see any claim filed that year and they themselves threw my husband under the bus stating he had insurance covering a driver he said was his son with a email I didn’t
    recognize. Come to find out the woman is someone he’d been dating and her son whom my son said was his..This whole time since December my husband was claiming to be alone lonely missing his kids and I. The entire time staying with me off and on but he said I wasn’t ready to receive his returning home because I still didn’t feel I could trust him. All a while with he’s this woman and come to find out there 5 more since he’s been gone. In which I’ve spoken to two of them. My praying for my husband and marriage restoration is weakening. I said goodbye to my husband Friday being every time he’s come to stay he’d walk out the door over and over again hurting not only me and breaking my heart but his kids as well…We love him with all our hearts I especially and I know this is not him anymore. I don’t know what transpired for him to become we no longer know. All I know Is I want the enemy to let go of my husband. I want his heart of stone to be replaced with a heart of flesh, remembering our life together of 30. God didn’t put us together and keep us together for my husband to just walk away, I don’t think. Bad part is I have no family just my boys and I. I have no,prayer warriors to pray with me. No cabling no parents I’m a one person Army praying every night for thorn bushes to embrace my husband and make him feel some sort of conviction for what he’s choosing to do against his family..I’ve run out of options any advice or prayers anyone. I want my husband back and my family put back together….

    • Elizabeth,
      Your story broke my heart. I honor and respect all that you are doing to restore your marriage. I can’t criticize that because I also believe that with God, all things are possible. And I know that He can convict hearts and I stand with you in prayer and plead the blood of Jesus over this entire situation.

      My heart also hurts for you in a similar way, but not exact. The issues in my marriage deal with cycles or repetitiveness–getting back together, but issues never get resolved the right way and then down the road, the negative cycle repeats–because it wasn’t resolved correctly when first reconciled. So the cycle showed a lack of commitment and lack of unity, so negative things happened again. This is not your story but what I am trying to communicate is you have value–you are very valuable to God. And God doesn’t want the second best or the third-best for you, He wants the very best. And although I understand your desire, and the desire to keep the bonds of marriage, God can definitely work in our lives, but it takes two people 100% willing to change together to move forward to repair past damage and allow true repentance and forgiveness to take place. God is not a puppeteer and cannot force your husband; he has to be able to see all of this himself and make the choice. As humans, we can either follow our conscience and do what’s right so God can move in our lives, but we also have the freedom to ignore Him, which then there are the repercussions from the decisions we make. You can’t control him, you can only do what you are doing and pray pray pray. But in these prayers, I hope you know that you deserve the very best and don’t deserve someone who has not completely turned away from sin, because if they come back prematurely and are not new creatures in Christ, then the chances could be that they can fall into the pattern again, and then your life will be part of a pattern, of a man you cannot trust. I’m not trying to be negative, so I ask right now in the name of Jesus for God to work a miracle in your life, that your life will be transformed to be the best you can be for you and your children, regardless of what happens.

      I pray for peace for you as you go through this journey.

    • Elizabeth,
      Staying marriage for 30 years is remarkable. Take my advice: Put God first, not your husband; respect him (your husband) and treat him fairly. Make allowances for his faults and forgive him. If he wants to leave, let him leave. He’ll return to you down the line because nothing good will end up good for him, and he’ll realize and be greatly sorry for the bad decisions he’s made.

  8. My husband and I separated in March 2017 because I forced it upon him. I asked him to move out repeatedly, and 2 years later, he finally did. He’s been out of the house since April 2019. God has really worked on my heart since then. Now I’m the one who wants to work it out, but he has moved on. He doesn’t want to try to work things out. He refuses to even go to counseling. He said it’s over. He has a girlfriend now too. They’ve been together since November 2018. They are very much in love. I still think God can heal our hearts and our marriage. Please pray for restoration.

  9. I have people tell me that my marriage is far to gone for God to restore. But am just like Crystal here. My wife told me she just didn’t love me anymore. I have read books on how to honor her as Gods child. We are both saved and we’re going to church.She got caught up with the wrong crowd. Am crying out to God to touch her heart and make that call for me to come back home.

    • I stand on behalf of David and his wife, in the courtroom of heaven. I present this case to you, Most High Honor, and I stand on their behalf to repent for all of their sins, I repent for things that were said about them from others, I repent for what they’ve said about one another, and I ask that any legal grounds the enemy has on their bloodlines, from Adam to David, and from Adam to David’s wife, to be annulled and washed clean by the blood of Jesus! Thank you Your Honor Most High God for your jurisdiction today! It is done! The enemy has no legal grounds on their lives any longer.

      I ask to take their case into the throneroom of grace and mercy where you remove the veils, scales, and idols off of the eyes of their understanding. Renew their hearts and minds, remove their hearts of stone and give them hearts of flesh. Do whatever is necessary to bring about the conditions for the restoration of their marriage and renewal in their daughtership and sonship in you Father God! Send all the help from your workers, from your angelic canopy, and from your Holy Spirit to surround them, guide them, minister to them, feed them your Word, and bless them. Let your glory shine through in their lives! In Jesus’s name, amen!

      • Thank you for this testimony and this prayer. I will “let go and let God” start working in my marriage. Often we forget that the enemy is after the blessing in our families, we forget our fight is not with blood and flesh but with spiritual warfares. This testimony has uplifted my spirit and raised hope within me. My marriage too will be a testimony. God bless our marriages!

    • Hello my name is Marlene and I to am fighting to bring my husband back home. My husband left me sept 4th 2018. He says he’s found someone else and doesn’t love me anymore I have an abundance of faith and I will not give up. Next Tuesday he’s coming over to discuss if we can agree on a settlement he still says no way I’m not coming home I have been married to him for 25 years but together for 30. I still believe we are meant to finish this journey of life together I love the lord but he has his doubts so what I’m asking god for is a lot to bring him home and to open his heart up to the lord. Please please if anyone can pray for me I would ever be so grateful. I love him I miss him and I need him home. I’m so sad I just want my husband back. O marriage comes without problems but a marriage is made to last forever. Thank you to all of you and from the bottom of my heart I feel for each and every one of you. God is amazing God is forgiven and most of all God loves us more than we realize..

  10. I’m truly thankful for Crystal sharing her testimony. I have been married for 15 years and my husband has left the martial home. He has hardened his heart towards me. We both have have done hurtful things in our marriage towards each other but he blames me for the dismantling of our family. When he left the covenant was removed from our family and the children began to exhibit behaviors that are heart wrenching. I’m praying for God to restore my family holistically. I’m praying that God restores my marriage. I’m praying that God softens my husband heart and change his heart and mind.

  11. Very powerful story, I read it over and over and hit the floor on my knees. Am going through the same thing. I got 2 books The Love Dare and The Resolution for Men. And she was happy to see me read these. Please keep us in your prayers. David &Kelly

  12. Thank you Crystal. I read your testimony with a Fresh wound and tears no one can ever understand.
    I introduced my fiance in a colorful function last year 24.11.2018. This is a man I love. This is the man i did everything I could do for a companion for. He cheated, I forgave.
    I am prayerful but honestly I feel worthless, I don’t even onow if my tears are being seen. Crystal if I could measure the amount of my tears, I swear to God I must have already cried 200 Liters of tears between February 2019 and today 30.06.2019.I loved my husband, and I still do that’s what hurts me most! God!

    After starting our traditional marriage journey, he even suggested dates for our formal wedding as 10.08.2019 which I don’t really know will ever come.
    On the 07.02.2019 I got a miscarriage and lost a 4 week preg. All was well till that day, he never showed up at hospital, I was discharged went back home and 4 days after he came to my apartment and all was well…. Though he arrived in the night about 9pm and left after a day (We always lived 4 hours apart because of work) and were planning to start living fully together after our wedding.

    Hardly a week, I called him, only to tell me, the relationship cannot work. Does anyone know what this mean? You’ve lost a pregnancy and even before you heal, you’ve lost your marriage…. God in heaven, save me!!!
    I have begged and begged, I’ve prayed and asked God… I didn’t have a good childhood background and I shared my story with him when we had just met…. These are the things he is apparently using against me!!! Crystal… I am hurting… I’ve been accused, I’ve been abused I’ve reached a point in life where I just can be seated and my mind is a billion miles away. My mom and dad weren’t married they separated when I was 6. Today all this is my fault….! My family is the worst according to him…. I have asked myself all sorts of questions if my baby had stayed…. Would he have stayed? I wish I had power to choose who gave birth to me but just like any other person I was born in my family… Why all this came up now… I also don’t know!!! God…I don’t want to have a broken marriage… I just neeeeeeeed you.

    • Hi Doreen.

      Never be desperate for a man’s (human’s) attention. You are not to be blamed for the family you came from and God has wonderful plans for you. Listen now and do this: If your husband is fed up with you and wants to leave, let him leave. But remember that you’ll have to be the spiritual leader in your union and put your trust and dependence in God alone. Let your fight not be physical but spiritual; treat him fairly, respect him, do not insult him when he insults you, forgive him, and now work on yourself by seeking the joy, peace, self control, and contentment that comes from relying on The Spirit of God. The Father who loves you will restore you in one way or another through the wisdom of His Spirit. And while I’m finishing – congratulation on your baby! Someday you’ll meet her when you go to be with The Lord, because we Christians never lose even when it appears we’ve lost.

  13. Thank you Crystal and all of your comments.Iam hurting so much,my husband not only Left me.but fatherd a child just after I miscarried.and things were never the same we argued a lot,he also has a sec and drug addiction.i didn’t know how to forgive him .my pain was so great and still is.i was so angry,that I said so many things .but then I realized how much he meant to me so I tried to let it go my husband won’t even let me meet,the child.i have cried and am still praying that God will restore. Our marriage he has other grown children and family members who interfere didn’t know whathat to pray anymore.if you are strong in the Lord please help me to pray I’m so tired.

  14. Same here.. My Ex and I broke up 2 years ago, she left with my 3 children. We co parent and do things together but still she wants no part of getting back together. Plus I found out she has a guy friend that might be getting serious. I still love her with all my heart, and pray daily for them to come back home. I still have faith God is going to restore my family even though she’s lost in her ways. Please Father take the sword that the enemy placed in my family, and fill it with ur Holy Spirit. With God anything’s possible in Jesus name Amen.

  15. I can relate with Crystal’s story on so many levels. My husband and I are both born again and we got married in our early 20’s. Ever since we got married, we have always fought about the interference of his family in our marriage. He did all he could to try get the family to understand that we need space to grow our own little family but they never respected that decision. The bible says therefore a man shall leave his mother and father and cleave to his wife and the two shall be one. His family never fully released him to me and I also feel he never fully left too. On the 1st of May 2019, I discovered a very disturbing conversation between my husband and my mother in law. He had been asking that she tries to accommodate me but my Mom-in-law told him that she will try but I must know my place and that I can never come in between them. She even advised that my family is spiteful and unappreciative and that he should stay away from them. After expressing to my husband how seeing those messages made me feel. He responded by saying, we have always fought about this one issue and that he doesn’t see a future with someone who doesn’t like his family. He also said we argue a lot and that our relationship had become unfulfilling for him. And just like that, while I was at work he took all his belongings and went to stay with his parents. He never called or texted me. His family also refused to see my family to talk through our differences. His friend advised that I move on as he no longer wants me. 4 weeks after he left he sent me a settlement agreement. I have not signed it yet as it doesn’t have a deadline, I’m taking this time to seek God’s face concerning my issue. He led a group of young people at church and was also a musical director, his own purpose has been put on hold ever since he made his decision. Its now almost 2 months since he left. The sad thing is we are not fighting about our own issues but external factors. I still believe in God’s ability to turn things around. I know that WITH HIM, ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE.

    • Hugs dear. Praying with you to testify. I have a similar case thats involving his cousin brothers being bad influence in our relationship.It hurts but we look unto the mountains thats where our hope come from

      • This testimony not only gave me the faith to keep fighting for my marriage but that God has a plan for it. If this doesn’t encourage someone to keep fighting for their marriage i don’t know what will. God can restore even the brokest situation. Pray for CJ and Heaven

  16. I read this when my husband left me and said the same things her husband said to her. I read this stuck by it in Nov 2015 to May 2016 and believed and put faith into my prayers. I cried each day. Those few months felt like years. And one day just like that. He restored my marriage. In March on 2016 I tried to end my life. The pain was unbearable and I just wanted the hurt to go away. I struggled daily. I always reached out for others to pray for me. When all along I had it in me to change my life around. I wanted God to just make it better in a hurry without examining my self and taking note where I went wrong. One day in the behavioral facility I was transferred to, I looked outside and heard Gods voice say “ Let me show you what I can do”…. I had peace that day and I was able to go home after 4 days after being hospitalized. It didn’t happen in a matter of days. It happened May 31st my whole life got twisted upside down. You see I prayed for circumstances to occur in my spouses life and to bring him to his knees. I prayed it a lot not knowing exactly what it would entail. My husband was sent to jail for a horrendous crime and in 1 week exactly. My husband changed his life around. He went from a heart of stone to a heart of flesh. I saw him cry for the first time in years. He didn’t look dark anymore. I could see the light in him again. Within that one week he read the Bible prayed like he never did before. You see God hears our prayers. He examines our heart. He gives us only what we can handle. In 1 week the DEA dropped his case. Which rarely ever happens. The person who filed charges against him confessed it was a lie and they released him before his attorney knew. No one will ever convince me it wasn’t Gods hand that moved in his circumstance. He came out the man God Intended him to be. It’s been two years since that awful but bless full day In our lives. I thank God it happened just as he intended it to. My Husband is a God fearing man and we have a new profound love that only Jesus gifted us. I’ve been with this man for close to 20 years. We are so in love we attend church together and the love I have for him is so pure. I give God all the honor and Glory for restoring myself my husband and marriage. Don’t give up. When things get hard know that God moves mountains. I knew he would do something in our lives I just didn’t want to wait and wanted to fix it myself and that got me nowhere. Have faith and trust God. He works it all together for his good. I hope this gives someone hope not to give up. Things can be restored. Thank you Crystal for your testimony that gave me hope….

  17. Good evening my name is Claude, thank you Crystal for sharing your testimony with us, my wife has also left me along with my two sons, she’s had an affair with someone soon after we were divorced and im constantly praying that she returns its truely an unforgiving feeling to be heartbroken in this way, i pray that the holy spirit guides her back to me someday, ive put all my faith in God thank you.

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