Gentleness- Fruit of the Spirit

Many men may draw back a bit from this next fruit, which is the quality of gentleness. However, Jesus was fully incarnated into a human flesh body – but this incarnation was done as a man – fully Man and fully God.

Since Jesus walked our earth as a man – the Son of Man – study His actions very carefully when you read the gospels and how He handled different types of people.

There were times that He would engage and set people straight, like He did with some of the Scribes and Pharisees. But there were other times that He dealt with people very gently, with kindness and love.

His gentle way of handling some of these people is what really jumps out at you when you really study how He handled different types of people.

Again, Jesus is the perfect role model for all of us to study and learn from – especially with how He handled people while He was walking down here on our earth. For men in particular, His actions and behavior towards others should be a major study for all of us and we should seek to pattern our own daily walk after Him.

And one of the divine qualities that He had operating in Him with great abundance was the quality of gentleness.

The quality of gentleness is another major quality needed in our world today. So many people have been beat up and hurt in their dealings with other people – that just a gentle word, a gentle touch from another Christian can really open up the door for that person to be able to receive Jesus and His healing, saving, and deliverance power into their lives.

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Once you really start walking in the Holy Spirit with His divine fruits operating and flowing through you – you will really be able to feel and sense when you should handle a certain person or a certain type of situation with more of a touch of gentleness rather than with any kind of stern rebuke or condemnation.

There is a time for tough love – but there are also times that just a gentle and loving touch is all that is really needed to properly handle a certain situation.

The Holy Spirit will guide you in all of this. Just realize that the quality of gentleness is one of the 9 fruits of the Spirit, and this is one of the fruits that He would really like to get worked into your personality, especially in being able to use it when dealing with and helping out others.

Parents especially need this fruit operating through them, as it is very easy to get out of balance with the way you are correcting your children. Sometimes more of a tough love approach is needed, but at other times more of a gentle approach will be better suited for the situation.

If all your children ever hear from you are stern words of rebuke and criticism, and it is never properly balanced out with words and actions of love, kindness, and gentleness – then after a certain period of time your children will start to pull away from you, and they then will have no more desire to want to establish any type of good, solid, loving relationship with you.

Now here are some of the different definitions on the quality of gentleness:

  1. Mildness combined with tenderness

  2. Gracious, kindly disposition, controlled strength

  3. A disposition that is even-tempered, tranquil, balanced in spirit, unpretentious and that has passions under control

  4. A character that is equitable, reasonable, forbearing, moderate, fair and considerate

  5. Power and strength under control

  6. Willing to pardon injuries, correct faults. One who rules his spirit well

Not only will other people love and gravitate towards you more if you learn how to walk in this quality – but you will be at much more peace with yourself since you won’t always have to be fighting and striving with others when trying to help them out.

Here is a listing of all the 9 fruits of the Spirit and the link to each article on the particular fruit.

  1. Love
  2. Joy
  3. Peace
  4. Longsuffering
  5. Kindness
  6. Goodness
  7. Faithfulness
  8. Gentleness
  9. Self-control

5 Responses to “Gentleness- Fruit of the Spirit”

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  1. Brandy - December 13, 2012 at 2:15 pm

    Thank you so much for these resources on the fruit of the Spirit. The entire site on the topic is very helpful. However, when I click on the link for “self-control” it just loads the page for “gentleness.” Is there any way that I can get access to the in-depth description of self-control? Thanks!

  2. Chris Bradley - December 13, 2012 at 3:27 pm

    Hi Brandy, I apologize for that. it was a very weird thing. The link was actually correct but for some reason it was going to the gentleness article but i renamed the self control page and now its working.

    Btw, glad you like the resources

  3. Brandy - December 19, 2012 at 2:09 pm

    Thank you so much Chris! I appreciate your prompt response and I thank you again for these great resources! God Bless and Merry Christmas.

  4. solomon appiah flexy - May 16, 2015 at 7:57 am

    First of all I would like to thank God for each and everyone’s life. As a believer; you ought to be filled with the Holy Spirit. And not just being filled with the holy spirit alone but you have do abide in the holy spirit and the word of God so that you can bear fruit. The fruit of the holy spirit has it’s root embodded in one word: “Love”. Love contains all the fruit of the spirit as syatad in 1Corithians13:1-8.
    Thank you

  5. Portia - February 11, 2017 at 3:47 pm

    Thank you so much for this lesson. You uplifted my mind and my soul . Help me with prayers to open the way for the holy spirit in my life. May the lord bless you more

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